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Autumn romance

We ask Rebecca Attenborough, dating expert at Fast Impressions, for some tips to make romance sparkle this autumn.

Before we head to cooler winter months it's time to plan some long-awaited romance and make the most of the last of the sunshine. A walk in the park can be a little too clichéd, so get inspired and have fun. Here are some options that you'll enjoy and that will impress your date with your creativity…

Take a yoga class. Rather than taking a standard exercise class at the gym — where it might easily become a competitive iron-pumping contest between the two of you — yoga is a good way to show your interest in wellness and get in sync with your date: "My perfect summer date would be a weekend morning yoga class, a healthy breakfast with good coffee and a walk along the waterfront," says Adrian Gregory, a creative director who lives in Sydney. (PS: If yoga class isn't your thing, try another interesting class, like sushi-making or architecture — your local university should have plenty of listings for weekend classes in its adult-education division.)

Bike it. You could walk through the park, but it's more interesting to bike it. Put a little planning into the route, with a lunch at the midpoint. Andy Farouk, an account manager professional who lives in Melbourne, explains how he does it: "I like taking a date bike riding through the park. We'd relax in the gardens and have a picnic lunch. Then, after a nice conversation lying in the grass, we pedal back." That combination of exercise and talk time is a nice change-up for couples just getting to know one another.

Go antiquing. If you're the type to incorporate a little walking around and shopping into a date, avoid the malls and hit the antique stores instead. It's more substantial and special. Jack Bronson, a purchaser at a luxury hotel in Brisbane, enjoys going antiquing and explains how just-met couples can do this: "Go antiquing for an afternoon and then enjoy dinner at a sidewalk cafe. It's so romantic after a day of treasure-hunting to unwind with each other over a bottle of wine, a beautiful dinner, and people-watching." Feel like that's too tall an order for a first or second date? Ramp it down a bit, and invite the object of your affection out to brunch and a quick spin through a nearby flea market. As you visit each stall, you'll discover each other's taste — and have a fun time pointing out the kitschiest and bizarre finds that are for sale.

Be a tourist in your own town. This one works especially well if the person you're going out with lives in a different town or suburb. You may not think twice about that little duck pond in the park down the road or the cafe who serves the finest flat-whites in your town, but these are great date destinations. Please, don't drive to a dull mall for a dinner out. Take advantage of anything fun and outdoorsy right in your own backyard. Speaking of which, if you do have a backyard with a couple of comfy chairs that happens to be a great place for a barbecue date, too.

Get a couple's massage. Have you been dating for a while and are ready to heat things up a notch? There are few things as simultaneously relaxing and romantic as a couple's massage and a spa treatment. Some spas even offer outdoor massages — great for a sunny afternoon or evening.

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